I think I’m a boring texter and sometimes people I text are boring as well. But I’m texting a girl I like and I would like to know some good long lasting conversation starters like personal and stuff. All we talk about is weather and random stuff. I wanna flirt with her but I dont know how. help me pleeeease! )
Not too mushy (such as I like you, miss you, you are sexy).
There are many things that we can say regarding texting women. It’s pretty big topic, that I promise to write my next post about.
However, let me give you 2 tips that you can use when texting women to be more attractive and interesting.
The first, is adding emotions to your text. You see, text is just letters – but when you talk to a girl, you add much than just words – your body language and tonality have very important part in your conversations, and they are totally missing in your text messages.
How do you add emotions to text? Women often do this, but men don’t. Have you seen women writing something like “emmmmmm”? and what about “……….”? And “lol”? These are all examples of adding emotions to a boring text. Use these emotions in your text – women love emotions and are attracted to emotional men.
The second thing that I can mention here is how to not show too much interest in a girl when you text her.
When you’re texting a girl that you’re interested in, what you always do is to check your message for any mistakes, misspells, etc. When a girl gets such “perfect” message from a guy, she knows he’s very interested in her – and sometimes it’s not very good. If you want to be a challenge for women, you don’t want to show too much interest.
So what I suggest, is to make mistakes by purpose. A good thing is to “forget” adding spaces between words.
Check the following message: “hiii…. whats up? i’m going outwith myfriends tonight, emmmmm… do you wanna join??”
This is a message to which I added both “emotions” and intentionally forgot to add spaces. Women tend to be much more responsive to such messages.