User Questions

Question: I know that red color is connected to passion and to love. In movies about romantic men, for example in “Vicky Christina Barcelona”, the lover uses red colors. However, does it really make women attracted to you if you wear red clothes? I would like to know what you think based on your experience. [...]

Question: I tried to be funny, I tried to tell her interesting stuff, to ask her questions. But this girl doesn’t give a damn. She doesn’t even answer my phone calls any more. What is the secret of making a girl interested in you? Ray Answer: Hi Ray, I can perfectly understand the situation you [...]

Question: Why do girls not want to sleep with me? I mean, I can have a great date with a girl, I see she likes me, but it just cant work if I ask her if she wants to have sex with me. She will never say yes!!! So how the hell do you convince [...]

Question: I am 25 years old, and I work in my office with an amazing cute blond girl. Recently it seems that she is flirting with me a lot, and she even gave my a tiny spank one . The problem is this – she is 32 years old, which means she’s about 7 years older [...]

Question: “I often find it hard to deal with rejection from women. It happens a lot when I go out to at night. If I try to pick-up a girl and she rejects me, it makes me feel depressed and not approach other girls for the whole night. Damn it, how can I be better [...]

Question: What non-verbal signs do girls give out to potential romantic partners? And how do they behave if you are not interested? I am a bit on the shy side and can never read these accurately. lets say you ask her something in college class, and while asking you, she looks directly into your eyes, [...]

Question: I am pretty good at approaching women. I am not afraid anymore, and most of my approaches are good, women talk with me, or at least listen. My problem is that I don’t find a good way to continue the conversation with a girl. How do I hold a good conversation? Do I need [...]

Answer: I hear all the time about being an alpha male and showing alpha qualities. But what does it mean exactly? I don’t want a girl to like me by behaving like a maniac or insulting her. Or is alpha male something else? Question: “Alpha male” is originally taken from biology. For example, Alpha Dogs [...]

Question: People tell me that i am a nice fellow. It’s important for me to speak politely with everybody and especially with girls. In general I like helping people. But I can’t get out of my mind the phrase “”good guys finish last””?! I have been single for over 2 years while all those maniacs [...]

Quetion: Hi, I went to a night club a few days ago with some friends. I wasn’t very succesful in the begining, but around midnight I met a girl that I liked and using some opener we went into a good interaction. We talked for about 20 minutes and even danced together. Well, I am [...]

Question: Hi Richard, I read in your posts about first dates, that basically kissing on the first date is kind of a must. Like, if we don’t, something is bad in the chemistry or that i didn’t create enough attraction or comfort. But does it mean that i have no chances with the girl if [...]

Question: Hi, I was wondering what to do in case that I approach a girl in a club, and it doesn’t work out. Can I approach other women? How does it look to the other people in the club?     Answer: My personal answer is YES! Many women give their phone numbers to more [...]

Question: I met a girl on a birthday party of a girl from work. We talked and even hugged alot, but now (she gave me her phone number) she doesn’t answer? I am just frustrated that a girl that I liked doesn’t want to talk to me… What changed since that night? And what can [...]

Question: How do I convince a girl to go our with me? Most of the times, even if a girl wants me, when i ask her out on a date she kindof says “I don’t know”, “Maybe”, “Call me and well see..”. When I insist, they usually just hesitate and eventually dont go out with [...]

Question: What signals do women give men to show that they are attracted? i mean, its easy to say that she touches her hair and smiles a lot. Some girls don’t do that. I never had a girl telling me she likes me and is attracted. So how can I know? I’ll appreciate you simplifying [...]

Question: What is the reason why I just don’t understand women?  And they also don’t seem to understand me. I have many male friends, but i cant say that even have a single female friend. Like, i have women in my work, but we dont really have social connections. How can i be interesting to [...]

Question: Hi, I have a problem that just makes me feel angry again and again all the time. I go out to clubs, I look great. Of course, I see many attractive women, but I just can’t approach! I know it’s possible, I just can’t make this short walk and say something. I tried to [...]

Question: I’ve got a girl’s phone number, we actuallty talked over the phone, but i didn’t tell her anything about a date yet. But of course, she knows we are going over romance, not just friendship. I feel anxious before asking her out for a date, so i don’t wanna mess it up. Can i [...]