Starting Conversation Posts

Learn how to approach women and start conversations, in almost any situation – bars, clubs, restaurants, cafes, malls, buses, trains, and even while walking over the street.

The following posts are all about the topic of appoaching women:

What Are The Best Pick-Up Lines

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In order to start a conversation with a girl that you don’t know, you need a pick-up line, which is basically a sentence or a few sentences that begin an interaction. Most men have various fears and anxieties regarding approaching women, and if you ask them about what’s the main reason that stops them from [...]

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Picking Up Girls on the Bus

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Public transportation is a great place to meet women. Every day we lose tens of opportunities to meet beautiful girls – we see them walking on the street, at the coffee shop, in the grocery store, and in many other places. I’m sure that more than once, you’ve thought about approaching one of those women. [...]

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Approaching Groups of Women

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Approaching a girl that you don’t know might be scary and intimidating for almost any man. It’s especially true when it comes to approaching women who are not alone, or groups of women. Many pick-up artists call groups of women “sets”. I don’t know who invented this terminology, but Mystery uses it a lot. So [...]

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Approaching Women On The Street

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Approaching women on the street, is a part of day game. But because it’s a bit unique, and men face many difficulties in this kind of approach, I decided to dedicate a whole post for it. Before going to the theory, let’s watch a quick video. This is a great example of approaching women on [...]

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The Art of Day Game

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Picking Up Women in Libraries, In the Mall, in the Supermarket, at school, in cafes, restaurants, and on the street,   This is all called Day Game. Is there a difference between night game and day game? Of course, and the difference is much more than the venue. She Doesn’t Expect You to Appoach Women [...]

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Direct Openers To Approach Women

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 Sometimes, you just don’t feel like playing games…  When you use Indirect Openers, you always have to think of something to say, a new opener, being funny etc. Some men will also feel it’s “Not Being Yourself”. According to my experience, some men will usually prefer using indirect openers, and others will prefer to be [...]

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False Time Constraint – Using Words And Body Language

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In my previous posts, we discussed various ways to approaching women Indirect. We talked about the words to use when approaching indirect, but the words of the opening line (or the opener) are not enough. In this post, we will learn how to make it impossible for her to not respond to your opener. This [...]

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Approaching Women Indirect – And Which Openers To Use

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 There are 2 main ways to start a conversation: Direct and Indirect. The direct approach, means that you show direct interest in the girl when you approach her: “Hi, I like you”, or “I want to know you”. Using the indirect approach, you don’t show any direct interest in the girl. Usually, attractive women are [...]

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Starting A Conversation With A Girl You Don’t Know

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When you approach a woman, and it doesn’t matter where and whether it’s during the night or during the day, there will be 2 basic questions that she will be asking herself, in order to decide if she wants to continue talking to you or not. Give her a good answer to these 2 questions, [...]

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PUA Openers – How To Start A Conversation With A Girl

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Almost every interaction with a woman – no matter if it’s a one night stand, a friendship or even something more “serious” – started with a guy who approached and started a conversation. You simply can’t meet new women if you don’t approach and initiate a conversation. You can sometimes meet a girl inside your [...]

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Picking Up Women At The Gym

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You might be surprised, but when it comes to picking up women, there a big similarity between the gym and a night club/bar. Although a gym is definitely considered as a “day game” venue, women at the gym will be very interested in meeting guys. When you stop a girl walking on the street or doing [...]

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Opinion Openers

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Opinion Openers, are probably the most known way to start a conversation. that was created by the pick-up community. I first learned about this kind of openers while reading “The Game” by Neil Strauss, and at first it seemed almost revolutionary to me. Until that point, I was sure there were only 2 kinds of openers [...]

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How To Use Your Copywriting Skills To Pick Up Women In Bars And Clubs

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“What line, what opener should I use in order to start a conversation with a girl?” That’s probably the most common question men ask in the pick-up scene. Sometimes, I go out to a night club with a list of openers that I’m gonna use, but suddenly when I’m in the club, they all seem [...]

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How To Approach A Girl

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Approaching women is the first step of any interaction and relationship with a girl you don’t know. Whether it is in a bar, club, or during the day – you need to know how to approach and how to start a conversation with a girl. Like many issues in the social dynamics between men and [...]

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Lame Pick Up Lines

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One of the first things that I’ve learnt from the pick-up community, reading the books of Mystery, Style, and others, was that “Pick Up Lines Don’t Work”. By “Pick-Up Lines”, they actually mean all those lame lines that our friends teach us. Lame Pick-Up lines, are all those stupid sentences, that men might think are [...]

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How To Pick Up Women In Bars

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Bars have become a common venue for young men and women to hang out, enjoy their night time, and of course to meet each other. In fact, not really “each other” – because it’s the men who are expected to make the first move and approach women. There are mainly 2 different types of night [...]

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Funny Conversation Starters

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There are hundreds of different methods and ways to start a conversation with women. Many of them, I discuss in various posts in the blog.. In this post, I would like to introduce you to what I call “Funny Conversation Starters”. It means that from the moment you approach, you begin with a very humorous [...]

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The Direct Approach

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I’ve just arrived from a trip to Berlin recently. I will tell you about my adventures and thoughts about it in a later post.   Any approach is a bit Direct But today I want to discuss what is called The Direct Approach. First, you must understand that almost any time that a man approaches [...]

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How to Approach an Unknown Girl

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Getting a woman to have sex with you, involves many stages and obstacles that you need to overcome. You need to make her attracted to you, feel comfortable, and you need to properly escalate towards sex. However, the biggest sticking point men have when it comes to women, is how to approach an unknown girl. [...]

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Why Pick-Up lines don’t work

Have you ever attempted to use one of those cheesy pick-up lines that your friends told you? “Am I dead, Angel? Cause this must be heaven!” “Bond. James Bond.” “Do you have a map? I just keep on getting lost in your eyes.” “Hello, I’m a thief, and I’m here to steal your heart.” And [...]

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Approaching Women in a club

Unlike daytime and even some quite bars, Night Clubs have extremely loud music. If in a regular interaction we have 3 levels (Our Words, our Tonality and our Body Language), than in a night club only our Body Language remains strong. Women, especially the attractive ones, get lots of attention from men in the club, [...]

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