Comfort and Rapport Posts

Comfort and Rapport are essential to get a girl to trust and want to be with you. You being comfort with a girl after you approach her and after she gives you signals of interest and attraction.

Comfort includes the moments before you get her phone number, but it’s mainly the process of dating – the first date and those that come afterwards.

If you know how to talk to and understand women, this might eventually lead to a relationship with her. But even if you only want something casual – you need her to trust you and feel connected in order to sleep with you and have sex.

Some Creative Date Ideas You Should Try

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Are you bored of the regular, typical dates, where you take a girl to a café or a restaurant, you concentrate on eating and drinking, and eventually you run out of things to say in the boring environment? Yes, a café or a restaurant are good-enough defaults – although I personally suggest going out to [...]

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Who Should Pay on the First Date

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You’ve got yourself a date with a girl. You picked her up, you got her number, and now you’re going out somewhere. Whether it’s a bar or a café, and especially if it’s some fancy restaurant (not recommended), the question will also rise – who should pay the bill at the end of the date? [...]

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Second Date – Get It Right

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Second dates are kind of tricky, because you had a first date – which was probably successful because the girl wants to meet you again. However, you don’t want your dating with her become a sequence of never-ending and going-nowhere dates. It doesn’t matter if you want her as a girlfriend or a fuck-buddy – [...]

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How to Talk to Women – Using Feelings and Emotions

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Have you ever had a female friend who was desperately in love with some jerk? That guy definitely mistreated her, but she still wanted him and remained in contact with him, or even worse – kept chasing him as if he was god? You probably wander, why a woman would agree and want to date [...]

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How To Make A Woman Fall In Love With You

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Love and falling in love, has been a mystery ever since human beings exist. What makes us fall in love is definitely hard to explain or to learn. And yet, as impossible as it might seem, I will make this attempt and try to explain, what makes a woman fall in love with a man. [...]

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Best Place To Take A Girl On A Date

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Café, Bar or walking on the beach – Which is the best place to take a girl on a first date? Assuming that you managed to go all the way from meeting a girl to setting up a date with her, your question should now be – where am I going to take her. My [...]

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First Date Questions

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Frustrated of having boring first dates that turn into job interviews? Most men don’t understand the purpose of a first date, and therefore turn it into a conversation in which the guy and the girl ask each other very informative questions, that have no romance involved. And it’s only you who should be blamed for [...]

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Impressing Women – How To Impress Women

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Bringing her flowers? Picking her up in your fancy car? Or perhaps memorizing a list of compliments to tell her? Well, at first I was surprised to hear that, but there are lots of women who believe that in order to make a girl like them, they need to work hard to impress her – [...]

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How Women Test Men

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Most men will agree to have sex with almost any girl, and if they will filter women – it will usually be based on their physical appearance. But women are different. Many men are frustrated oy being tested by women. Those tests are often called “shit tests”, and a woman will use them to gather [...]

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Running Out Of Things To Say

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Approaching women but quickly running out of “things to say”? Yes, it is a big problem, because it prevents you from moving to the next step after the approach. You can ask a girl for her phone number, kiss her or have sex with her, if you can’t talk with her and manage to hold [...]

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How To Get Out Of The Friends Zone

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Getting into the “friends zone” is a common mistake men do with women. In fact, there is nothing wrong with being “just friends”. I personally believe that real friendship is possible, even If it’s between men and women. However, the problem arises when you have different views over the relationship than the woman has. In [...]

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Should You Tell A Girl You Like Her?

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In the dating world, it’s seems that we are kind of playing a game of “who is showing less interest”. We are often told that when you start a conversation with a girl, it’s better to use “indirect openers”, which means that you don’t show your interest in the girl (although you probably are interested, [...]

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How To Ask A Girl For Her Phone Number

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Asking for a girl’s phone number, is a crucial moment in the process of pickup. It’s important because most of the women will refuse, even if you try or suggest, to have a same night sex with you. Even if all you want is sex, you’ll need to get her number and meet a gain. [...]

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How To Get A Girl To Kiss You

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You’ve probably faced this once before: You are sitting with a girl, having fun, chatting. But how do you move from this situation towards a kiss? Well, it is indeed a complex issue. The first kiss has a strong meaning: It moves the relationship from friendship to romance. So how do you get this kiss, [...]

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First Date Conversation Topics

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A first date is probably the most common way to develop a relationship between men and women. Although some people might tell you the opposite, a first date has not “Standard Structure”. Men tend to have some strong fears related to first dates. Those fears are in many cases based on their past experiences, and [...]

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Eye Contact Flirting

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Men, in their nature, tend to be very logical and technical. Because of that, we tend to look for the “right words” to say. If you check most of the dating advice, and even the hardcore “pick up” sites, you will find that almost everything they discuss is the words – What we should say to women. [...]

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Complimenting Women

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When was the last time that you complimented a woman? Do you remember how she reacted? Many men try not to compliment, only because they believe that complimenting women, and in general showing interest, makes them look weak and unattractive. However, this is not true. Women need compliments, sometimes even more than they need sex. [...]

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First Phone Call To A Girl

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Today I would like to talk about what happens after you approach a girl and get her phone number. The fact that you’ve got her phone number means that you were better than 95% of the other guys who approached her and probably didn’t get the number. However, many women give away their phone number to men, [...]

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First Date Kiss

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Going to a first date with a girl, is a common step towards a relationship and, of course, sex. How you handle the date, has a great effect on whether a second date will take place, and whether you will reach intimacy with the girl. Women tend to spend lots of time on preparing for [...]

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Tell Something Negative About Yourself

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Telling Negative Things About Yourself can actaully be a great Advantage for men. Women are attracted to men who don’t try to impress. Let me tell you today about a great trick to create trust and rapport. It’s true in sales, and it’s also true in picking-up women.   When a person tells us something [...]

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Topics to Talk About

Getting Stuck without knowing what to say You began speaking to a girl, and suddenly after a few minutes/moments, you just can’t find what to say and what to talk about? This happens to many men. Well, you did the first step, you to overcome your fear of approach, and now you get stuck. Getting [...]

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Creating Comfort and Rapport by Mirroring

A great thing I learned from NLP (Neuro-Languistic Programming, if you never heard about it, you better should). NLP is a set of methods and techniques to improve our communication with people. It can be used in therapy, sales, friendship, and dating too. Well, most of the process of picking-up women is actually creating Comfort, [...]

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First Date – Guidelines

A date, unless you are dating a girl you’ve never met, is mainly a phase of comfort and rapport building. If a girl agreed to go on a date with you, this means that she is probably already attracted to you in some way.   During the date, what you want to do is to increase [...]

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How to make a woman feel understood

The No.1 thing for which woman feel frustrated from men, is the feeling of Not Being Understood. The roots for this problem are probably in the far past of humanity. Men used to go hunting, while women stayed around the camp/cave. The skills that men needed in order to survive were mainly technical. And that’s [...]

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